RSSThoughts / Lessons (106)

17-07-2018 Precautions for Children - بچوں کے لیے احتیاطی تدابیر
09-06-2018 Anthony Bourdain - Celebrity chef found dead at 61
06-06-2017 Its all bout thinking
22-12-2016 Syria Condition - Children Massacre
11-09-2016 How can you deny
09-01-2015 Signs - And who knews
29-06-2014 Duniya aur Munafiqat
22-05-2014 Dad and Son
16-05-2014 Quotes - Images
10-05-2014 Note to Print on Wall
14-01-2014 Received just a bit reality... Rabi ul awwal
16-12-2013 Baseless Report in the Gulf News regarding Pakistan vote for Expo 2020 UAE
19-07-2013 For someone... in Ramadan
06-07-2013 Few ways to earn rewards
10-05-2013 Vote for Pakistan
24-04-2013 Listen to one of the reality بھوک تہزیب کے آداب بُھلا دیتی ہے
08-04-2013 A message for PIA from Emirates
18-03-2013 We love you boom boom
13-12-2012 Signs - And Who Knew
02-12-2012 Secret videos of Girlfriends and blackmailing - Urdu TV Program for Girls
21-11-2012 In solidarity with Gaza - Palestine
09-11-2012 Tribute to National Poet Allama Iqbal
11-10-2012 Drones, Malala vs Malalas and Media
19-09-2012 Protest against disrespect of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)
19-09-2012 Double Standard - Kate Topless and Prophets Blasphemy
18-09-2012 Innocence of non Muslims rather Guiltiness of non Muslims
24-07-2012 Maa bhai kub maray ga - ماں بھائی کب مرے گا
08-04-2012 Badshah aur Behis Awam
23-01-2012 Don't Sell your memory card with your mobile
11-01-2012 Equality vs Justice
13-09-2011 SubHumanity
15-07-2011 Allahu Rabbuna
05-07-2011 This is how a baby miss his father
22-05-2011 A letter from Parents
12-02-2011 Free Kashmir - Free Palastine
25-12-2010 When people you trust, let you down.
25-08-2010 phir karam ho gaya, may Madinay chala... maashaAllah.
22-04-2010 may to punjtan ka ghulaam hoon
18-03-2010 Think before you post on Facebook - Specially for girls
22-09-2009 Eid Greetings
08-09-2009 Poetry - Shairi - Quotes - English - Urdu - Arabic (occasional updation)
23-08-2009 Ramadan Kareem
26-06-2009 Suno agar sun sako to - Urdu Quotes
17-06-2009 When you smoke
12-06-2009 Maulana Jalaluddin Roomi
25-05-2009 Think it...Food Taste and Hunger
22-05-2009 What v got from China - Some thing about China Success
18-05-2009 missed u - ana wel shouq
27-04-2009 One face of world as I see
17-04-2009 Forgiveness
08-04-2009 Ye Kaisa Hay Musalman
23-03-2009 Just a single thought in lyrics
12-03-2009 Mubarak the birth day of محمد رسول الله صلي الله عليه و سلم
06-03-2009 21st Century.... We are becoming lesser by the day
06-02-2009 My Love... Muhammad - Pakistan
23-01-2009 A bit sad but good luck youth...
19-01-2009 War on Gaza Annie Lennox Shaken To The Core Sky News
14-01-2009 We will not go down - Song for Gaza by Michael Heart
07-01-2009 Ibrahem Bin Adham
03-01-2009 Safest seat remarks get Muslim family kicked off plane
02-01-2009 Heartbreaking Poem of Palestinian Girl
26-12-2008 Dedicated to Quaid-e-Azam Muhammad Ali Jinnah
17-12-2008 I am Pakistan
10-12-2008 Eid and Hajj Mubarak
03-12-2008 Pakistan - Post Dedication
01-12-2008 Ant & Grasshopper - Pakistan Politics
30-10-2008 The Philosophy of Life
28-10-2008 Be a really good Husband...
28-10-2008 Be a really good Wife...
14-10-2008 Better to be a Lion in your own country than a Monkey elsewhere
14-10-2008 Ahhh! The Life
14-10-2008 Wise Old Man
07-10-2008 Free Unlimited Account
16-09-2008 Think about it... Life hereafter...
09-09-2008 Change our vision
09-09-2008 Donkey Attitude - Way to live!
02-09-2008 The Two Wolves
31-08-2008 Dua - Urdu/English
30-08-2008 Dua
20-08-2008 No Limit - Anger - Regret
09-08-2008 Will be missing you
31-07-2008 Success
29-07-2008 A Leader Should Know How to Manage Failure - Management Lesson
30-06-2008 Ways to Success
13-05-2008 Maa - Mother - Mom
25-04-2008 Easy Vs Difficult
12-04-2008 Team Work
06-04-2008 Visa To Pakistan -- InshaAllah
01-04-2008 THE SUCCESS OF MARRIAGE
28-03-2008 Success of life - Hadiths
19-03-2008 Secrets behind a Happy Married life
07-03-2008 Thinking
28-02-2008 General Motors vs. Bill Gates
22-02-2008 Dua - Pray
21-02-2008 Poem by African Kid
19-02-2008 Mind your own buisness
13-12-2007 Management Lesson - Big John
05-05-2007 Knowledge
01-05-2007 Future Home - Qabar
22-03-2007 From His and Her Diary
09-03-2007 JOB aur Kaaaam
12-01-2007 Famous People Quotes
20-06-2006 ONE BEDROOM FLAT... cost my life.
25-05-2006 Management stories
29-04-2006 Think Simply , Think Effectively ... Use Common Sense
28-04-2006 Mechanic and Surgeon
Tue 17 Jul 2018

ایک ڈھائی سال کا بچہ ایمرجنسی میں لایا گیا.

چابی سے کھیلتے ہوئے اس نے وہی چابی بجلی کی ایکسٹینشن میں دے دی. شدید جھٹکا لگا اور جب تک ہمارے پاس پہنچا حرکت قلب بند ہو چکی تھی.

خدارا بچوں کے معاملے میں بہت احتیاط کریں. بالخصوص یہ 1 سے 3 سال کی عمر نہایت خطرناک ہے.

اس عمر کے بچے کو:

- کسی صورت میں بھی سکہ یا کوئی بھی ایسی چھوٹے سائز کی کھیلنے والی چیز نہ دیں جو گلے میں پھنس سکتی ہو.

- گولیاں ٹافیاں بالکل نہ دیں اور ڈرائی فروٹ بھی اپنی نگرانی میں دیں.

- بچے کا فیڈر کبھی بھی مائکرو ویو میں گرم نہ کریں. اس سے دودھ ہر طرف سے ایک جیسا گرم نہیں ہوتا اور کوئی "ہاٹ سپاٹ" بچے کا منہ جلا سکتا ہے.

- پنسل، تیلا، چابی یا کوئی بھی نوکیلی چیز مت پکڑنے دیں.

- بجلی کے ساکٹس پر ٹیپ لگا کر رکھیں اور کوئی بھی تار ننگی یا بغیر پلگ کے نہ چھوڑیں.

- ٹیبل پر ایسا کپڑا نہ ہو جسے بچہ کھینچ لے اور اوپر پڑا کوئی ڈیکوریشن پیس اسے زخمی کر دے.

- دراز ایسے ہوں(سٹاپر والے) کے بچہ کھینچے تو پورے کے پورے باہر نکل کر اسکے اوپر نہ گر جائیں.

- بچے کو کبھی بھی پانی سے بھری بالٹی یا باتھ ٹب کے پاس اکیلا کھڑا نہ چھوڑیں-. ایک لمحے کیلئے بھی نہیں. بچے اوندھے منہ بالٹی میں گر کر فوراً ڈوب جاتے ہیں.

- بچے کے گلے میں تعویذ، لاکٹ وغیرہ نہ لٹکائیں اور نہ چوسنی کا ہار پہنائیں. یہ کسی بھی وقت پھندا بن سکتے ہیں.

- تمام ادویات اور خطرناک کیمیکلز (مٹی کا تیل، بلیچ، تیزاب وغیرہ) ہر صورت میں تالے میں رکھیں.

- سیڑھی اور چھت کی منڈیر کے معاملے میں خاص احتیاط کریں.

- موٹرسائیکل پر بغیر کسی تیسرے بڑے شخص کے اپنے ساتھ اکیلے مت بٹھائیں.

- گاڑی میں اگلی سیٹ پر ہرگز نہ بٹھائیں اور گود میں لے کر ڈرائیو کرنے والے احمقوں والی حرکت تو بالکل نہ کریں.

- بیرونی دروازے ہمیشہ بند رکھیں اور خیال رکھیں کہ بچے کا ہاتھ کنڈی یا لاک تک نہ پہنچتا ہو.

یہ چند احتیاطی تدابیر آپکے ہنستے بستے گھر کو آناً فاناً ماتم کدہ بننے سے بچا سکتی ہیں.

A two and half year-old child was brought to emergency.

While playing with the key, he gave the same key to the power of electricity. It was a severe shock, the heart was closed.

Please be very careful in the case of children. Especially this is the age of 1 to 3 years old.

To the child of this age:

- Do not give a coin in any form or any small size that can be stuck in the throat.

- Pills Candy don't give and dry fruit also keep in your monitor.

- Baby's feeder never hot in the microwave. The milk is not hot every inside as any "hot spot" can burn Child's mouth.

- Don't let them catch pencil, key or any pointed item.

- Keep tape or plastic adopter on the sockets of electricity and don't leave any wire naked or without plug.

- Don't keep such cloth on the table that the child can pull and on the top there is no decoration piece, glass or heavy item on it.

- Do not Let the child never stand alone in bath filled with water, not even for a moment. The children may fall down in the face and they are drowned.

- Do not wore your children any amulet, locket or necklace as they can take them in mouth and reached to their throat.

- All medicines and dangerous chemicals (Mud Oil, bleaching, acid etc) keep in the locks in every case.

- Take special care in the case of ladder and roof.

- Don't let them sit alone on motorcycle without third adult person.

- Do not set your children in front seat of the car, and the fools who drive in the lap, do not be able to do so.

- Keep the outer doors always keep off and take care that the child's hand does not reach the kandi or the lock.

This few security strategies can save the house from becoming the mourning temple.

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Sat 9 Jun 2018

Dr. Waleed Hakeem 

I am really shocked! I know there are more important deaths to talk about, but there are a few reflections I would like to share that have valuable life lessons for me.

I personally was extremely inspired by Anthony Bourdain's travels, success story, and I learned so much from his travels about what to eat in each country, and learned to be brave in trying new things. In fact, I own his entire collection of episodes and use them as a reference when travelling. He was a chef who was stuck inside a kitchen working long hours, wrote a best selling book in his spare time, and from there, his dunya success was nonstop. His work in supporting Palestinians through his show and humanzing them is just monumental!

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Then again, we could clearly see the pattern. Someone who has achieved everything they could achieve in life: fame, money, awards, travels, you wonder, how could someone like this commit suicide? Let's be honest. There are many of us who could only DREAM to have even one-tenth of his life!

When a person achieves everything, they get to a point where they start feeling there is no more bigger purpose in life. There is nothing else to achieve, so they may lose the meaning of life, feel depressed, and take away their life (If you want to protect yourself from this, always find a higher purpose in life. A mission that drives you!)

Believing in an afterlife and a Creator protects a person from many forms of depression, as they live for a higher purporse (although religious people may have depression too for chemical imbalances or from other life traumas, so don't mix both please!). 

We also learn that looks may be deceiving. You may think someone is the happiest person alive because you see them travel, eat best food, have enough money to never work, etc, but deep inside they may feel something else. I personally went through this, where people on my page think that I am super happy because they saw me travel to 100+ countries, but they have no idea how much pain, problems, or suffering I have in my life from other issues that Allah tested me with (and I'm always thankful to Allah for everything, AlhamduliLlah!)

Make time for people. Talk to them, listen to their pains. You never know how many lives you could save when you save someone from depression. When you empathize with their pains! Robin Williams, Michael Jackson, Anthony Bourdain, and many others, remind us that even if you appear to have it all, you may still suffer depression, which is intensified by not having a purpose and not having a connection with our Creator or afterlife. Return to your lord, and seek his help. Especially in these blessed days!

Thank you Anthony for inspiring me to travel, try food that I never imagined to try, and teaching me about other cultures. I learned from you that even if a person is small and unknown, they could work hard to make their message global, not just food, but for a bigger and better legacy. It is sad that even though you have visited many Muslim countries, you didn't find your path to guidance. You are now with your Creator!

P.S I know he used foul language a lot in his shows, and that's really bad, but always observe and see what positive things you can learn from each person you meet, regardless of their background.

By Dr. Waleed Hakeem, Traveling Imam

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